Left continues to spin and nothing can stop the rotation. All men are carried away with the lap time in this world, demikan also with the child – the child. Many children – children who grow much of value – the value of Islam with its impact the times are becoming increasingly sophisticated. Day – the day they are not empty of routines that do not provide benefits for their afterlife. Each day the cafe – Internet cafe in various places filled with children – children, they fall asleep with the online world, busy with chatingan world, immersed in the world of gaming and other – other. They know that the obligatory prayers over them, but they did not ignore the prayer call. They were given the task – the task of the school, but the task – the task is not their notice. They were dragged into a world full of joy that is a mirage. Really this is the fact that befall children – children of this modern-day Muslims.
The situation of children – child above is not separated from their parents mistakes in educating. The parents did not educate them with Islamic education. They fail to teach children – their children with values - values of Islam. This situation is also exacerbated by the lack of knowledge of Islam which is owned by the parents. Parents only provide food and clothing only to their children. They do not mmberikan good example to their children. Prayers and other worship they are not founded, until the child – the child they do not set it up as well. Parents are busy with their own jobs and children – children are also busy with promiscuity. Cause of parents do this is because they do not know Islam, actually, when they embraced Islam.
Parents who provide a good education was sometimes successful and sometimes not. It’s all back to the guidance of Allah. Only God who has authority in this case, humans only prosecuted and ordered to try and do. A good parent will always make every effort to educate their children as a form of affection for them. Shallallu Rasulullah ‘alaihi wa Sallama as good role models for all Muslims in all matters, including in terms of educating children. He taught his son to the teachings – the noble teachings of Islam, even if if his son violates such as stealing, then the Messenger of Allah Himself who will menindaknya firmly. This is because Allah wants for children – children can achieve happiness of the world and the hereafter.
Education of parents towards their children is a must be continuous. Education is not to stop or break up with her son married, nor when the child did not receive an invitation to do good. Noah ‘upon whom be peace is to give an example to us how true love of parents always have to be given to their children. He still took his son to board the ship when a big flood, with the hope that her son would receive good teaching and can be saved from danger of flooding. This story is enshrined in the Qur’an letter Hud verses 42-43 as follows:
إنني أنا الله لا إله إلا أنا فاعبدني وأقم الصلوة لذكري
And the ark sailed to bring them in waves like mountains. and Noah called her son, while the son was in a far remote place: “My son, went up (to ship) with us and do not be with those who disbelieve.”
She responded: “I will seek refuge in the mountains that can memeliharaku of the Flood,” Noah said: “Nothing is protecting the day This is from Allah, but Allah (only) of the Most merciful”. and wave a barrier between them: “So be it children, including those who drowned.
Paragraph above shows that the Prophet Noah called his son to want to come with him to survive. Stated in the paragraph above that nothing could survive the flood hazard by reason of such a variety of ways to be safe as long as God does not want his salvation. This has been explained by Shaykh Sa’di in his commentary. It is a type of Noah’s parents are very loving towards his son. Noah had long been lamapula educating their children and their children would not accept his teachings, but he remained patient and keep fighting. Hopefully this article can arouse the hearts of parents who have not the attention to the development of their children.
تيسير الكريم الرحمن في تفسير كلام المنان للشيخ عبد الرحمن بن ناصر السعدي
الهدي النبوي في تربية الأولاد في ضوء الكتاب والسنة للدكتور سعيد بن علي بن وهف القحطاني
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